Reconsidering the drive of Resolutions: Factoring in the Collective. Photo by Granlund One thing most of us can agree on is that resolutions are a pain to deal with. A resolution represents a marker for change, which can be immensely difficult when we are steeped in the rut of habit. Observe the aunty who has the resolution to move to Australia or that MLM friend who has a resolution to peak in sales and retire at 30. More often than not, our dreams and desires may not come true, nor will they result in the happiness we expect to gain. Instead, most resolutions are insufficient when contrasted to the bigger picture. Many of us do eventually experience the sense of hopelessness; in pursuing something that does not provide the fulfillment we expect. When we enter such a stage, our resolutions falter and disappear, our confessions and failures become shamefully hidden, only written in white space or in denial. In our over-expectations, and in our bets placed in the wrong basket, our dr...